Bridget, my mom passed away when I was 8, and I didn't get to learn many lessons from her. I agree with your statement but allow me to share another viewpoint. Life taught me to treat people how they prefer to be treated, not necessarily how I'd like to be treated.

I've unintentionally upset many, believing I was acting in their best interest, only to see them walk away because my actions didn't align with their preferences. I've learned to observe, ask, and gauge their reactions to my actions, often subtly. Now, instead of waiting for their praises, I sense their comfort by how much time they choose to spend with me. If they linger, I'm on the right track; if not, I need to adjust.

Not disagreeing with you, just offering a different angle. Cheers, my friend.😊