I agree 100% with Susan's comment, especially with the written format. People can't see one's expressions or hear their tone, and this is where people avoid each other. There is a lot of nonsense, be it here or anywhere else, and one must not take everything seriously or as the ultimate source of deep knowledge. People share their experiences and views, and they are free to dismiss what doesn't resonate with them, just as the reader is free to express their view politely. Have a wonderful day, my friend.