My friend, I carefully read every single line of your article. Your writing is very engaging, and I've always been curious about the psychology and mindset of human—especially those responsible for others.
While I'm unclear about your financial background, I've been around pretty wealthy folks and, from what I've seen, many parents, particularly mothers, seem pretty disconnected from their kids. It's almost like they have a "Joker" unpredictability, caring mostly about themselves. I'm not pointing fingers at your mom, but if you'll allow me a moment of honesty, you might not want to take everything she says to heart.
It's tough to discern whether she's been hurt before and is projecting that pain, or if that's just her nature. Sometimes, the best course of action is simply to ignore. Wishing you the best, my friend.😊