We, men, appreciate a little compliment every once and a while; it's our responsibility to take care of our partners and provide for them, and we feel proud of it. You are right about men having to suck it up, but the truth is that if a man understands how his partner thinks and becomes more agreeable, the relationship gets easier. It seems that if a woman loves a man and finds him understanding, she will give everything she can. Thank you for this piece, Melissa