While I may not be the ideal person to give advice, being a man and thinking that men and women can perceive intimacy differently due to cultural or neurological reasons, I do acknowledge that everyone's unique. People have distinct preferences in expressing and experiencing intimacy. Relationships often involve compromise, and sometimes one partner might need to set boundaries for mutual happiness. Nonetheless, I want to emphasize the strength and clarity in your writing. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts! Well done, my friend.